They don’t have to like you.

There’s the thought that runs through lightworker minds, that they must be loved by everyone. Because they are light.

No. Just no.

If everyone likes you, babe you’re doing something wrong.

It’s not your job to be liked, it’s your job to create change.

Change is plunging someone headfirst into the unknowable future.

That new job. That healthier body. That new business. Living that dream. Feeling better about being them.

That’s big stuff. Changes you at the core of who you are stuff.

And anything that causes an interruption to the current identity pattern is viewed as hostile. Because, you know, it’s different and different could be dangerous.

But different? Is the goal. That’s what they want.

It’s your job to hold space for that.

And as the space holder for that goal that will change their life, there is no space for you to be concerned about being liked.

Being liked is irrelevant.

It doesn’t do anything for them.

No needles are moved forward. No changes stick.

All that happens is that you feel better. And that babe is so not the point of all this.

It’s not about you. It’s about the evolution of their soul.

Get out of the way and do your job. It’s being an agent of change not Miss Congeniality.

Let go of the likes and let love lead.

It's better that they remember you as that bastard who kicked their ass into gear, if all you do is what makes them happy in the moment, they won’t remember you at all.  Because you didn’t help them change. Which is what they actually wanted.

It’s ok if you trigger them. It’s ok if they get pissed at you.

It’s ok. 

They don’t have to like you.

It doesn't make you an asshole. It makes you a catalyst for change. 

Serve their soul, not your ego. 

And it’s ok if that stings. If you disagree with me. 

If you don’t like me. 

You don’t have to like me.

I’m here to create change.

In you. 

If you’re ready to dive in and do the deep work that catapults your life forward, then I’m here for you. It’s time for you to enter the Temple of your Soul and emerge in your full divine glory. 

The invitation of your soul is here and I look forward to seeing you on the other side. 

Amy Biondini